Human connections

So in response to a email from a friend I want to talk about the importance of human connections, as it was on my list of necessary things to stay productive and happy. I am new to this city and making friends can be quite a task.
I have intentions of meeting more friends when I get a job or sign up for an art class. (insert defensive tone) plus I have friends at my husbands lab.
I have met some people:
My hubby and I were driving to drop him off at work, when I saw an Indian man pushing his car by himself and a woman was steering the car. The couples battery had died. The man was on his way to take his wife to work.  I offered to take her to work. I dropped off my Mr. and hopped on the freeway.    
As I drove she talked my ear off. She was nice a nice woman,  she had just finshed school and had to get a retail job due to the economy. She gave me breakfast at her job and hugged me when I left.
I told her I liked to cook Indian food, she told me I could call any time for cooking tips.
The question is will I call? Probably not.

What do we do is the modern society if we are not in a religious or racial clique to develop a community? I think going to a support group is the bravest thing a person can do. However, I am not going to do it.
Then there are neighbors. I know my neighbors names but do we have any thing in common? My mind says things like, 'what if they are crazy then I am stuck with them?', They are right next door.
When did my mind become the home of paranoia?
One of my best friends in Tucson was a neighbor. She loves art, cooking, and is very creative. She is a real treasure.

In looking for more friends I will ask the universe,
 Dear Universe, 
Can I have some creative friends that are spiritual, kind, love good food, take good care of their bodies, love nature and enjoy diverse activities? 
Additionally universe I prefer events not to start with what kind of alcohol is going to be there. In contrast, I want them to talk about art, community, nature, and family.
Thank you for your generous response. 
Spring. 
A quote by Sanaya Roman: All you need to do to receive guidance is to ask for it and then listen.
My ears and heart are wide open.
p.s. still no pick.